
Do all moms like to nag that much? I hope i dont become like that in the future. When she nags, she repeats stuff over and over again. If i could get a buck for everytime she repeats, i'll would have saved half the amount for my future Japan trip. And when she finds that she is done with the repetition, she goes on to other stuff.
I HATE it the most when she assumes stuff. When she gets only like 65% of the facts right. So much so that i would love to tell her to shut the hell up. To tell her to get her facts right before voicing out her comments. Like stuff said, when she argues with me or my dad.
For me, i have learnt to just keep quiet and suppress my anger whenever she nags at me regarding stuff which i know i am right in. I used to rebuke. But hardly anymore as it will just result in me feeling effing pissed and frustrated. So even when she nags and says something that i know is wrong or untrue, i'm lazy to correct her. I just shut up. It's almost like there isnt a need to tell her that she's wrong. She never understands anyway.
There are issues between her and my dad. You know, friction is bound to exist in every couple, and it leads to quarrels. But sometimes, although i dont know if it's true, i just find the stuff my mom says during their quarrels too unfair and assuming. Couple of times i voiced out something to stop their arguements. And i'm just told to stay out of their 'adult business'. Like wtf? She was being the unreasonable one. But she just dont know that.
I can see that my dad too sometimes doesnt wanna argue back too much with her and same like me, just keeps his mouth shut. I feel sorry for my dad sometimes. And it just makes me sad.
I'm cool with my mom. We have a good relationship. The anger felt towards her when she nags at me go away after awhile. I dont hate her or anything. But i just wish that sometimes....
Let us all be truly happy again.
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